Bitches.... Can't live with 'em, can't stop talking about them.

So... First up, if u disagree with my flagrant use of the word "bitches" instead of women or ladies.... I don't care.
I've noticed that it is a huge trend for females to give a lot to the dudes they deal with and then when they feel they've been played or just picked the wrong piece of shit from the pile, they decide that they will "be like men"..... In other words, they will magically transform themselves into bitches that have the ability to jugle men and be totally heartless in their sexual dealings....
Really? That's what ur gonna do? So all this time u were not being real and u chose to be a sensitive ass bitch that can be hurt or fucked over by a man that wasn't exclusively urs in the first place?.... Right.....
Or should i say yea right! I mean, even if u can switch gears for a little while, it's only a matter of time before u slip back into ur own skin and give a little more that u need to and then ur right back to the "imma start doin me" or "i need to get on some nigga shit" (obviously i know some colored ppl).
my ultimate point is this: ladies, women, girls, bitches.. Whatever u like to be called.. Be u! A weak ass man who feels good only when he can take advatage of females is, well, a weak ass man! Instead of thinking u should change ur thought process and attempt to stoop to a lower and, let's face it, far less cute level, rethink the dudes u fuck with. Rethink how much of ur time, effort, heart, money and/ or vagina u give to somebody. There's no shame in wanting to give someone ur all, but there's also nothing wrong with making sure that he's worth anything u got in the first place. Fuck letting someone else change how u carry urself.
Sounds simple but we all know it's not and we've all done stupid shit for at least 1 dude or felt stupid after seeing the true colors of someone who we've fucked with but COME ON! Do we really want to be less us? I know i don't. I'm the shit and if u don't think the same of urself enough to maintain who u r then u need to make an adjustment... And noot one that turns u into someone else. Ew to that.
Anyhoo... Just a random thought. Feedback is always welcome ;-)

Online Dating

So, on the match.com commercial, they start by showing numerous ppl listing relatives who met their spouses/ fiances on the website. Then then they say that they're resposible for more marraiges than other sites. This is great! It's absolutely awesome!.... But could possibly be that those who go online to find love have tried an abundance of other ways to find love and have reached the point where when they find someone even remotely awesome, they feel like they must have found "the one"? I'm not knocking anyone, nor am i saying that the sites don't work. However, i am very curious to know what percentage of success stories are ppl who just went on for fun, or weren't looking for an imediate life partner. In other words, is there anyone who found a spouse when their biological clock hadn't started ticking yet?

Disrespect Or flattery? That is the question...

So me and the hubby took our 5-year-old to basketball practice and while we were getting the kids in the car and preparing to leave, there was another parent (a father, not from our team) leaving with his son. I didn't notice, but my husband informed me that the guy stared at me the whole time we were getting into the car and continued to stare as he drove off. It made me ask the quesion: Is a man staring at a woman who is with her man disrespectful, or flattering?
Now, there r obviously going to be different opinions flying around about this, but i say it's disrepectful AND flattering... It's disrepattering. (Lmao!) Noticing an attractive woman and taking a look while she's with someone seems to be fairly acceptable. It's (to me) the equivalent of saying "ur lady looks good".... However, blatently having a staring contest with a woman's body or face or the whole package is more like saying "i'd like to fuck ur woman, and i'd do it while u watch." hahahaha! But seriously, it's too much. Now, a man who is secure with himself and knows that his lady is bad will shrug it off.... But a different kind of dude may feel the need to say/do something about it. Aka, u might catch one if ur lookin too hard.
But that is my oppinion. Some see things differently and could care less about some random dude oggling their woman and some plan to keep that shit under control. Just a bit more nonsense for ya.... Feel free to share ur thoughts.

Oops!... :-)

So...... I got called out because... Not olny have i not been posting links to new blogs but OOPS! I haven't even been blogging! Totally not like me to pass on writing, but such is the life of an exhausted new mom. And to be quite frank, no disrespect to anyone, but who the fuck wants to read about diapers, laundry and basketball practices?.... Not me!
What have i been up to in my few minutes of freedom?.... Falling deeper in love with Jerseylicious! I know, it's probably not the best rated show, but i fuckin love makeup and hair and fly ass bitches so.... DING! DING! DING! We have a winner! Hahahaha! I'm in love with the whole over the top style of these broads and it kinda reminds me of me and some of the girls at the club.... Hint hint... We're amazing! Plus, in this time of full-time obsessive mommy-hood, i need to be around as much flyness as possible. Even if it's on tv. enough of that....
I watched the reunion show after season 1 and wtf! Tracy's crying and trying her damnedest (is that a word?) to get everyone to feel sorry for her cuz she has no fans and gets hate emails and cuz nobody likes her.... But um.... Did she watch the show? Did she hear the things she said? To be real, the whole issue between her and olivia is not what makes her look like a complete bitch. Her private testomonials (or whatever it's called when they comment by themselves) are what display her to be so evil..... I still like the bitch, but sometimes she gets on my damn nerves. Olivia? Like her too, same side note. Basically they all both get points for flyness but could use a dose of getthefuckoffmynerves every once in a while. So..... This is the beginning of me blogging from my phone. And possibly the beginning of me dropping the spaces between words to add effect. Kinda like Tamar braxton and all the .com's and whatnot.... Only less 3 years ago. Ha! We'll be talking about that bitch too... Later!